Nowadays it doesnt make sense to expect a committed relationship.  Ive noticed that people only want to be in relationships when it benefits them.  When your havin sex is the only time they say “I love you.” lol An example that im seeing a friend deal with is that her boyfriend lives out of state and during their breaks he goes back home and does what single guys do.  But when hes back at school hes “focused” on her for the most part.  We were all hangin out yesterday and he just blurted out to her “What am i allowed to do when i go back home?” I can tell this question pissed her off because her face was completely red.  But she answered nicely “It doesnt matter what i tell you you can and cannot do because your gonna do what you wanna do either way.”  I could hear the hurt in her voice as she said those words.  Not only did she just give him the freedom to do as he pleases but she just realized that they were not on the same page in the relationship.  So where do they go from here???  She established that they needed to sit down and have a serious talk about their miscommunications.  And as for how that talk will go, i will not know until tonight…I jut hope not all guys are like this.  One day ill find the right guy for me and he wont put me in this kind of situation. Thats all i ask for.